I came across Carol's blog entry about this personality test, and i took it too... Thought it'll be very interesting to share my results. U can try too at www.9types.com
I'm of the following 3 types (in order of accuracy in my opinion =) )
Type 9 [Highest Score]
Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them
How to Get Along with Me
If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure. - i prefer confrontation at times.
I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this.
Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit. - i don't wanna be interrupted, ok
Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally. - there's a season for everything yah.
Ask me questions to help me get clear.
Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery. - if i'm nice/not nice, just say it! DOn't need to consider my feelings one.
Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings. - my 2nd language of love is personal touch.
I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
Let me know you like what I've done or said.
Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.
What I Like About Being a Nine
being nonjudgmental and accepting
caring for and being concerned about others
being able to relax and have a good time
knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around
my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator
my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now - i love make up and nice clothings, shoes, and keeping fit.. does that count? Lol
being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe
What's Hard About Being a Nine
being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive - Boss just did that to me twice today... super irritating!!! =@
being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline - that's me... (-_-)
being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally
being confused about what I really want - hmmm.. refer to 3 entries ago
caring too much about what others will think of me
not being listened to or taken seriously - that irritates me BIG TIME!
Nines as Children Often
feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant - i guess that's me.
tune out a lot, especially when others argue - haha... i 'act blur'
are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves
Nines as Parents - not applicable, yet. haha
are supportive, kind, and warm
are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective
Type 4 [Highest Score]
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me. - My top language of love: Words of Affirmation =)
Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little. - i need that VERY OFTEN!! Ding!!!
Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!
What I Like About Being a Four
my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
my ability to establish warm connections with people
admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor - u mean crappiness?? hahahaa
being unique and being seen as unique by others
having aesthetic sensibilities - my improving dress sense =)
being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me - Wow... accurate!
What's Hard About Being a Four
experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair - Wha very 准
feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
feeling guilty when I disappoint people - My sales... Sorry lah Boss.
feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
expecting too much from myself and life - Why still can't meet target??! =@
fearing being abandoned
obsessing over resentments
longing for what I don't have - Va va vroom....
Fours as Children Often
have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original game s
are very sensitive - yah i used to think of imaginary friends when i was in Primary school.... Eeeeekkkk..... so creepy, so accurate!
feel that they don't fit in - i dont' fit in at school... Loner
believe they are missing something that other people have
attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)
Fours as Parents (Not applicable)
help their children become who they really are
support their children's creativity and originality
are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
Type 6 [The next closest]
Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.
What I Like About Being a Six
being committed and faithful to family and friends
being responsible and hardworking
being compassionate toward others
having intellect and wit - crappiness part YES!!
being a nonconformist - another phrase is resistance to change... quite true in some cases
confronting danger bravely
being direct and assertive
What's Hard About Being a Six
the constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind
procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself - yah... my work, at times.
fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of - that's me...
exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger - wha... accurate
wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right
being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations - yah... haiz
Sixes as Children Often
are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn
are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger
form a team of "us against them" with a best friend or parent
look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel
are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, and/or take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent
Sixes as Parents - not applicable
are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty
are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence
worry more than most that their children will get hurt
sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries
Wha this test is real accurate. Hope u guys know me more!! =)
Thursday, July 27, 2006
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